Every time the month of October rolls around, many people think about the change of the seasons, from summer to now true fall. The holidays are just ahead, and so we all gear up to see how and where and if we will spend them and, of course, with whom, too. So, we all go out and look for the way we can get ready: fix the car, buy needed warm clothes or bathing suits, depending on whether we will be going, North or South.  

But while all this is going on in our families or circle of friends, do we ever really stop to think about why all this fuss and bustle is so important? What really moves us? Will our friends think us foolish or wise? What about what we, ourselves, really want to get into, and why?