Identity is a serious matter, but not too much.  Let’s explain it better.  It’s something important for the consequences and the effects it may have and, for this reason, it must be taken into right consideration. But it cannot be rigid, absolute, definitive. 

Identity is essential, but it is a continuous work in progress, something following a constant process of becoming; it means everlasting change, perpetual evolution and progressive metamorphoses. Identity is essential for each and everyone of us, it’s our motor, our beating heart: we always look for ourselves in what we do, in the people we spend time with. We define ourselves through our choices, the studies we do, the jobs we pick or we adapt to, through our hobbies, through what we think and in the opinions we express, through the books we choose among the millions available.